We have read it hundred times, heard of it thousands times, and thought about it million times; THE ONE! Everytime we feel attracted to someone, connected to someone, most of us take a step back and think, ‘is this the one?’. As we only want the “perfect”. We are too afraid to choose the wrong and regret it with our broken heart. The concept of perfection plays a vital role in our life and hence we overthink about it.
We fantasized about the one and always kept looking for the ‘signs’ sent from the heaven to make our lives worthy. Always kept our ears open for the violins to play, waited for the wind to puff our hair in slow motion and begged the clouds to shower few droplets of romance.
We never counted how many blogs we read headed ‘how to find the one’. Never measured how much time we spent with the videos telling us ‘how to know if he/she is the one’. Don’t remember how many write-ups we gulped which claimed to be epitome of love.
But the bottom line is, you are THE ONE for YOU! We are so convinced with the conventions, that we are just blindly following the mirage of ‘the one’, leaving behind ourselves.
Lost ourselves in the rush of flamboyant, superficial life and complaining why we feel so empty. Not taking care of our mental health but blaming life to be harsh on us. Not able to love own self but lamenting why we are not getting the love of our life – the one.
We are so occupied to see the great, that we just miss the real meaning and joy of things and life. We forget to enjoy our own company, forget to cherish the life with a smile on face. We are always in search for something we don’t have and forget to appreciate what we do have. So don’t wait for ‘the one’ as you already have the one! YOU!